We Accept Love We Think We Deserve

Dear Friend,

Maybe you're wondering why someone like me made a blog like this. I am not sure why I did but it felt like it was something I needed to do. I will go by the name Charlie. I do not wish to show my identity. This is a place for you to roam freely without judgment. I will listen and care for you like you have most likely listened and cared for me. If you feel like you have nowhere else to go you can come here. Don't be surprised if I write in your ask box a simple hello, a good morning or goodnight. I will do it often. Sometimes I get sad, too. You might even hear some of my ramblings.. Please believe things are good with me, and even when they're not, they will be soon enough.

Love Always,

Charlie.
Anonymous asked:
Dear Charlie, I really like my guy friend and I want to be with him. The thing is he has a hard time talking to me about his feelings when he's sober he's really reserved and a bit distant but when he's drunk he'll tell me all sorts of things. I know it may be the alcohol speaking but he said he likes me. I want to be with him but I'm afraid that I'm just not good enough for him unless he's drunk.

Dear friend,

Do not settle for that. I know it’s hard. But you deserve someone who is willing to live you in his full entirety. I want you to know that I think you are so beautiful and you deserved to be loved right and he shouldn’t have to be drunk to tell you he likes you. You shouldn’t have to put up with that. It breaks my heart that you think you are not good enough when you really are worth it. You are so much more than you think. Just tell him how you feel. And if he is not willing to accept you sober then it is his loss because you are so beautiful and strong and so worth it. Just don’t give up on yourself. You’re a lot stronger than you think.

Love always,

Charlie